My daughter Kristina is starting a series of posts dealing with courtship. If you are interested please go over to her blog and keep up with them.
Many are against courtship for whatever reason. Some are for courtship but have a false idea of what courtship is and how it is done. Some say true biblical courtship does not work and is impossible....but I know it works and I know it can be done. My son Ronnie and his (now) wife Jessica practiced true biblical courtship and are married today and had their first kiss ever and their first touch and holding hands at the marriage altar.
To read Kristina's posts on courtship go here.
Here are some more posts from those who have studied and/or practiced courtship:
Courtney (go to her sidebar and click on the posts under the topic "Courtship")
Jessica (my daughter-in-law)
My posts on Courtship
I pray by reading these posts and with some study on your own that you will see that courtship is God's way of having a relationship with a man before marriage. I only wish I had been saved and known all this before I was married....it would have prevented a lot of heartache and problems.